Finally, your spouse has admitted he might need help with his drinking. After years of putting up with his abuse of alcohol, he has agreed that a rehabilitation or treatment center might be the way to go. If you haven’t already done your research and found a center, then start calling places and getting on the Internet. If you have targeted a specific provider, good for you! You are one step ahead of the game.
Before you commit to a specific place though, make sure to find out the answers to some important questions. Check into the provider’s accreditation or license. Each state has its own licensing laws, while national accreditation is offered by various organizations.
Also find out about the professional staff. Are there medical doctors, clinical psychologists, nurses? What about specialists in addiction? How about the counselors? Make sure the staff meets all the national standards. You don’t want a fly-by-night organization that has former addicts with no training posing as professional counselors.
How many counselors are there for every patient? If you can afford it, a place with small groups and personalized care is better. You don’t want your husband to get lost in the shuffle.
What are the treatment options — a 12-step program, clinical care, detoxification? Make sure it resonates with your husband and is a plan that he can believe in and follow. What about length of the treatment plan? What are your options after treatment is completed?
Always try and take a tour of the facility. is it clean? Does it feel safe? Is it a nice setting? Spending time in nature has proven to be beneficial to recovery. Does the facility offer walking trails, serene alcoves for sitting, a tree to sit under?
Of course, finances are always a consideration, so ask if the provider takes your insurance.
If you like the answers to these questions, then you have probably found the right treatment provider and can get started on the journey to recovery.